Saturday, June 13, 2009

Avoid breaking up-Common mistake couples make in their Relationship

It will be alarming to know that 80% of the world relationship do not stand the test of time not because there is no love in the air but ignorance of the fact of how to keep your relationship going is the primary cause. Avoiding breaking up in your relationship should be the major focus of every serious couple.
All my life I have counsel couple and I have discover that most couples make the same mistake over and over again when it comes to how to avoid breaking and that is why I am writing this article. If you find yourself in a situation whereby, you find yourself breaking up and making up unusually then this piece is for you. Let share on some common mistake couples make;

THE INABILITY TO COMPROMISE
we are all people of different race, with different mindset, it is only normal to get on each other way, the same thing applies to relationship. The inability to compromise is one common mistake that has cause the breakup of much relationship. It in tell you playing along even when it is against your will, it also in tell accepting the blame even when you are right

THE ABSENCE OF GOOD COMMUNICATION RELATIONSHIP
No matter who ever I talk to, I also advice to keep a good communication relationship with your spouse, it the bedrock of every successful relationship, it is all about discuss and ironing out problem with your spouse. Many couple keeps an arm length from each other and that is one common mistake that always break up relationship.

SEX
The issues of sex has been a problem right from the onset, not having a good understand of sex can lead to break up especially with men who have a strong sexual appetite. It should be of importance to know that a common agreement should attend when it come to the issues of sex. Issues like, how often do we have sex? how ready are we ?

Learning to avoid this mistake can save you a lot of pain and misery. Striking a balance between you and your spouse is the key to a lasting relationship. Save yourself the pain and stress of making up, avoid this mistake and live a happy life with your spouse. You can get more by visiting Making up for life

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