Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Dealing with controversy in your Relationship

Is your relationship going through a lot of controversies? How best can we deal with controversies in our relationship? It is important to know that there is no relationship without controversy. In this article I am going to discuss the best way to deal with controversy.

Controversy in a relationship is due to misunderstand between spouses, remember that we are all people of different mindset, so it is only normal that will get on each other’s way. People argue that a relationship without controversy will fail. It is good that will experience a little controversy in our relationship to help us understand each other.

Communication is the best way to deal with controversy. Learning to listen to your spouse gives you clear view of cause and how to handle it. Communication in tells sitting down with your spouse in a relax atmosphere to discuss the problem.

Apologies are another key factor toward dealing with controversy. Learn to admit your fault when you are wrong can make the transition very fast and easy. Render your apology with all sincerity and avoiding such occurrences can make your spouse develop confident in you.

Self control is also a key factor when dealing with controversy. The ability to control yourself (anger) shows how mature you are. All sign of anger should be subdued in other to achieve a meaningful result, remember the quotation “anger needs no resident permit in the bosom of the fool”.

When dealing with controversy pride should be kept aside. Unfortunately this is where I call it a day but you can Read on

1 comment:

Fatima Da aka Fatibony said...

Effective Communication in all manners is the key..grt post thanks for sharing .